If you get tired so much, that you do not have either strength, or time to have sex, then you need to change something.
There are no free lines in your diary, from Monday to Friday : meetings, talks, trips … A thousand and one important things that simply must be done. As a result, you come home late and you feel like a squeezed lemon. And even if a handsome man has long been waiting for you with a bottle of champagne, it does not inspire you. Generally you have long been uninspired.
Let’s try to understand why this happened? Let’s say you have a favorite man full of strength and desire to love you all night long. Every evening he tries in vain to persuade you to have sex with him, but you politely refusal, kissing him on the cheek and going to sleep.
If in your life there is no place for personal life, it’s time to change something. As you may see, you should begin with yourself. If you physically feel that you turn into a robot because of an infinite sitting at the computer, you definitely need emotional discharge. You probably heard a hundred times that the best emotional discharge is sex. It will be twice easier to get the right mood, if your man is ready to have a romantic dinner with you and make you a massage.
But, even if he is not ready for such feats, do not give up. Try to explain to him that after a hard day at work you just need a long foreplay. He probably will agree with you, because you will both enjoy the process.
If you do not want to rely on a partner, you can do it yourself. There are many ways to make your mood better. For example, yoga helps greatly to increase libido. Talk to your coach, let him help you to find the right pose. Do the exercises at least 3 times a week and you will notice that your life is improving.