why say soo much, soo suggestive.... inviting...
only to...

I write to the many here to ask a question that I simply
cannot figure out. I am sure that as with all things, this
is happening more...  I read and have been passing notes
with some of the many to be sure... so my burning wonder is
why do some write... with intensity, suggestive intentions,
even specific propositions... and in timely reply, I say my
feelings, my thinking... in an articulate and appropriate
way... based on what and how and the nature of our chat...
(as in nothing I can see that would be offensive or
distancing)... only to either not hear back... hear back
with the same sexuality as the first but days or weeks
later? Some are clearly with other intentions..which I
cannot figure what these are... some are non specific as if
they are mailing to whomever... with no mention of our chats
B4, but a few pickup again as if no unusual time has passed.
Generally there seems to be a step or a line in the sand
that is easily approached yet I can't, or some other reason
makes finding ways to cross to the next place elusive?? Why
can't I get any closer to sharing and trading fantasies and
fun, sexy delights, secrets... ect. (all that's spoken
of)... when all signs say go... by me as much as by she??

 

Dear seekingifonlys,

First of all, you must understand
that in online dating members can basically write to anyone
they wish, say what they want to say, answer sent emails or
not answer emails.  What can I really do about that!!!!!  I
do not know what you are saying in your communications so I
really cannot tell you why you cannot get closer "to sharing
and trading fantasies and fun".  Perhaps you are turning
members off with what you are writing, maybe you are being
too forceful and coming on a little too much.  If you are
guilty of this, please try to change and see if the members
will contact you more often.  Let me know how it goes.

Love,
-  Aphrodite